There’s a reason we hire a fitness trainer, get a job, and show up for work on time.
We see value in someone else who directs our actions.
On the one hand, giving someone else authority over our efforts is a challenge, as they may not be aware of how much we have in store or how much we have in store. other in progress.
But the alternative is emotionally trying: Initiate.
Instead of calling it “taking the initiative”, it might be more accurate to say “giving the initiative”. Because it is rare and we need more.
Decide to do something that no one expected or ordered you to do.
Read something or develop a skill on your own.
Raise your hand, speak up, launch a new project …
We have been trained to avoid all of these things. And the proof is that four-year-olds don’t have a problem with any of them. We know how, but we’ve been taught not to.